March 1, 2010

Dear Anonymous Fu@kTard....

This comment was left on my blog this afternoon, and I am choosing to respond....


"You sound strikingly similar to my own parents and my parents always played the "we're doing our best" card when they were the crazy ones. Now people see through their bible thumping facade to the real, um, winners that they are. Maybe just deal with your child instead of pushing him off onto society like he's their "problem" (ironically, a word I refuse to use when speaking about a child). I wonder what your daughter will think looking from her perspective. She probably will worry that you will just ship her off too like you did her brother. "


Please take a chance to read more about me then just my last few posts, and keep in mind that I am about only a 4 hour drive from you, and now have your ISP. Hope the weather in Charlottesville was nice today.

Furthermore, don't bother coming back here and leaving this kind of crap assvice on my blog. You have NO idea what I have been through with and for this young man, and until you do you will NEVER understand what I am going through.

I don't Bible thump or anything even remotely close. I have dealt with my Son and tried to do the best that I can. Would you suggest letting him just rot away in his room all day because he is to lazy to clean his own ass, get a job, do his homework, or even have friends??


Do you have a clue what it is like to raise a special needs child?? Unless you do then shut the hell up!! I am sick to death of people judging me for doing what was the hardest thing I have ever done, so you and you stupid little comment can kiss my ass.

BTW, keep your mouth shut about my daughter, she will be just fine, no matter what your opinion is on the matter.



16 comments:

My Reality said...

Good response!

Don't let this person get to you. You are doing what is best for Kent. And you know that.

Hugs, my friend.

Kahla said...

I agree, don't let them get to you. Hate people like that. ((hugs))

Lost in Space said...

They are only trying to reflect their own bad experience onto you. This is clearly their issue and really has nothing at all to do with you. Hopefully they will get that sooner than later.

Hang in there.

Anonymous said...

Well said....although I thought you held back a little :-)
Some people really need a reality check and have no idea the intricate nuances of other peoples relationships and family dynamics...it's far too easy to peer into a small window of a persons life and form an opinion based around their own disasters...
~~hugs~~ love ya
Tesi (who still cant log into her blogger account so remains anonymous)

Kristin said...

{{{Hugs}}} hon...I'm sorry you had to deal with that ass clown!

stoptheworldiwanttogetoff said...

Holy Crap. What is wrong with people??
Hang in there honey!!

kimbosue said...

What a douche!

Tutu said...

Way to go!! Is it wrong that I sort of enjoy when you get riled up?

JJ said...

Yikes, Im so sorry sweetie. Sending you SUPPORTIVE hugs

Tracey... said...

Good for you....but don't let these people get to you...they obviously have no idea what they are talking about AND as you saw responded annoymously, of course! THEY ARE THE ONES WHO NEED HELP! It's hard enough as it is making the decisions that were best for your child, don't let them make you second guess yourself.....you know what is best for your child! God Bless and hugs!

Carrie said...

YOU GO GIRL!!!!

Agh....feels good to let off some steam!!!

libby @ ninesandquines said...

what an ASSHAT!!!!! and i laughed soooo hard with the "hope the weather is nice in" wherever the hell it is that they are from :-) you rock!

Lorraine said...

That person is just using you as an excuse to vent about their own problems. Anyone who reads your blog knows that you have gone through so much in your commitment to care for this boy.

Keep it up - your daughter will be so proud of you!

Carolyne said...

How anyone can have the audacity to go on anothers' blog and vent/criticise is beyond me.

Eugh.

I know it's been said but don't let it get to you too much. This 'poster' doesn't matter!

Anonymous said...

You're clearly more dumb than you originally appeared. You do not have my ISP as 1. I use a proxy and 2. Where the hell is Charlottesville? So, if using google stats to track your readers, my comment to you is, you suck at it.

poinson Ivy said...

Hey, sweetie, you know, if you needed your lawn fertilized, I could have talked shit to ya when I had you on the phone the other day! LOL Seriously, what a loser! This person must be feeling so shitty about them self, that they put you in their cross hairs to divert it all on to you. Wrong, YES!!! If they want to post, sign your real name you pussy. Wait, pussy is too nice of a name. Cunt. That is a better name for the hag that is spouting crap.
You are so awesome, and this cunt is jealous of you, plain and simple.