tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post691723587338663945..comments2023-10-09T04:11:02.662-05:00Comments on Diary of an Infertile Mad Woman: Grief Interupted...Rebel With.A.Causehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17454291899280028369noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-58222813741753801092011-01-04T09:58:08.174-05:002011-01-04T09:58:08.174-05:00I totally get that Erica....even now. It was 26 ye...I totally get that Erica....even now. It was 26 years on Dec.31 that I lost my first son and although I went on to have twin sons that are my entire world, I can't help but wonder about what could've been had my first son lived. I wanted more children after my twins but that was not to be. I grieve for that loss as well and what could have been. No one has to understand it, right or chrisnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-7459651109218150892011-01-03T13:55:19.584-05:002011-01-03T13:55:19.584-05:00big hugs to youbig hugs to youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-21783558714564237922011-01-03T09:18:12.697-05:002011-01-03T09:18:12.697-05:00Loving our living children doesnt negate grieving ...Loving our living children doesnt negate grieving those who have died, regardless of how long they lived in the womb or in our arms. I'm sorry someone felt the need to imply otherwise. <br />Thank you for you support on my blog, as we go through a similar situation with you.<br />Many hugs...Michelehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-46350486640844774802011-01-02T22:30:26.062-05:002011-01-02T22:30:26.062-05:00Frankly, it pisses me off that you even feel like ...Frankly, it pisses me off that you even feel like you have to defend yourself!!! That is B.S. You have every right in the world to mourn the loss of these two angels...they are your babies too!!! ((((hugs)))Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06787560951254005668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-51935368608007892092011-01-02T20:25:35.766-05:002011-01-02T20:25:35.766-05:00Honey...I am so damned sorry. I was really hoping...Honey...I am so damned sorry. I was really hoping I would be able to celebrate this with you.<br /><br />Lots and lots of {{{hugs}}} and don't let anyone tell you that you shouldn't feel as bad because you were lucky enough to have one child. <br /><br />Much love my friend.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-8116444419426202432011-01-02T16:18:33.049-05:002011-01-02T16:18:33.049-05:00Erica,
I know it was my comment that hurt you, an...Erica,<br /><br />I know it was my comment that hurt you, and trust me when I say I wasn't trying to minimize your grief or imply that you can't (or shouldn't) mourn your lost babies. I would never do that.<br />I won't even try to explain what I meant right now because I might not get my point across the way I truly mean it and don't want to hurt you any more than I already girlrantinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04625968285595671329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-70455740360845892252011-01-02T13:39:48.827-05:002011-01-02T13:39:48.827-05:00Well said. Hugs to you, my friend!Well said. Hugs to you, my friend!Rhondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10916264953926347992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-9002087614995550252011-01-02T13:02:48.227-05:002011-01-02T13:02:48.227-05:00*hugs* Just because you have one beautiful child, ...*hugs* Just because you have one beautiful child, should never mean that you're not allowed to mourn the loss of other children. i'm sorry about the other commenter.Jessica Whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06801308494220195403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-25981419028831930412011-01-02T10:13:17.457-05:002011-01-02T10:13:17.457-05:00Wow! That was very powerful. As a person who has a...Wow! That was very powerful. As a person who has also had two miscarriages, I know exactly where you are coming from. I have heard those same words, even from my own husband. I know he was just looking for a way to comfort me, but it was no comfort at all. Like I told him, I have two sisters. If, God forbid, one of them died, should I just say, "Eh it's ok, I still have one more"Tutuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00800871180954454933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-18632894135303703782011-01-02T08:50:17.367-05:002011-01-02T08:50:17.367-05:00I saw that comment and was surprised too. You lost...I saw that comment and was surprised too. You lost a life - it's a big deal. Many people who aren't even trying to get pregnant are devastated when they miscarry, let alone someone who wants it desperately. I'm glad you took the time to respond and I'm sorry someone kicked you while you were down.aplusefforthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12142056896638707180noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-22063764458522657302011-01-02T06:10:39.116-05:002011-01-02T06:10:39.116-05:00huge hugshuge hugsandreahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10548514864368948179noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-9090826402532415082011-01-02T03:04:51.527-05:002011-01-02T03:04:51.527-05:00hugshugsCajun Cutiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14825687783196553820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-55632103132557935382011-01-02T01:14:40.110-05:002011-01-02T01:14:40.110-05:00You don't have to explain yourself. Your pain ...You don't have to explain yourself. Your pain is your pain. Your feelings are yours and valid and don't take anything away from those of us suffering from "primary IF"<br /><br />My heart goes out to you. I hope that you can get PG again.Jemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10480192191711301637noreply@blogger.com