tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post4943433853488836010..comments2023-10-09T04:11:02.662-05:00Comments on Diary of an Infertile Mad Woman: Stunned SilenceRebel With.A.Causehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17454291899280028369noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-28799709219869270392009-02-07T12:09:00.000-05:002009-02-07T12:09:00.000-05:00I hope you are both on the same page soon. If he r...I hope you are both on the same page soon. <BR/><BR/>If he read this post, do you think it would help him understand why you want to do this?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-30940647570904139392009-02-06T13:37:00.000-05:002009-02-06T13:37:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry Rebel.I think Erin is right-on here.H...I'm so sorry Rebel.<BR/><BR/>I think Erin is right-on here.<BR/><BR/>He can't stand seeing you wanting something so badly and being unable to fix it for you.<BR/><BR/>Its excruciating to watch someone you love suffer..he just wants it to stop!<BR/><BR/>Does he read this blog? <BR/>It gives a lot of insight into your motivation..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-56558410555966172982009-02-06T12:39:00.000-05:002009-02-06T12:39:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry, and I have no words.((hugs))I'm so sorry, and I have no words.<BR/><BR/>((hugs))Sambalinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03431366396844254056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-82274461558400226432009-02-06T10:41:00.000-05:002009-02-06T10:41:00.000-05:00(((BIG HUGS)))Follow your heart, sweetie, it will ...(((BIG HUGS)))<BR/>Follow your heart, sweetie, it will never steer you wrong. Talk with Clark and go at this together what ever which way it may lead. <BR/>You know we all are here to support you!<BR/><BR/>xoxoxoxooxoxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-36471002191571919062009-02-06T05:20:00.000-05:002009-02-06T05:20:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry. Men think very differently from us. ...I'm so sorry. Men think very differently from us. I hope you guys will figure this out together and come to a resolution that both of you will be happy with.<BR/><BR/>Huge hugsJust Me.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12940399833566474215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-83141713183077769442009-02-05T23:31:00.000-05:002009-02-05T23:31:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry.I'm so sorry.Rhondahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10916264953926347992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-84124448943702677642009-02-05T22:37:00.000-05:002009-02-05T22:37:00.000-05:00Hugs, Rebel. I wish I knew what to say. We all s...Hugs, Rebel. I wish I knew what to say. We all seem to move through this at different paces and sometimes are just out of sync. I will be praying the 2 of you can find a way to satisfy both of your hearts. I'm sorry, sweetie.Lost in Spacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07027117135940864685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-49713694892883080322009-02-05T22:23:00.000-05:002009-02-05T22:23:00.000-05:00I have been there, and all I can say is that it is...I have been there, and all I can say is that it isn't necessarily a permanent condition. I think men are more easily frustrated and emotionally short-term creatures, and the end of a disappointing cycle is the worst time for them to be optimistic or enthusiastic about anything that might be negative in the future. It was always easier for my husband to try to put a positive spin on the things he Lorrainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04180034761243431694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-49876547943087475722009-02-05T21:49:00.000-05:002009-02-05T21:49:00.000-05:00Came over via...oh, heck, I don't know how I got h...Came over via...oh, heck, I don't know how I got here!<BR/><BR/>But now, I'm praying for you!That Janie Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17447630124016303483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-75067899061834567742009-02-05T21:33:00.001-05:002009-02-05T21:33:00.001-05:00(((Rebel))) I'm sorry he caught you by surprise li...(((Rebel))) I'm sorry he caught you by surprise like that :*( I think what provided closure for me was knowing we had no infertility coverage and we just couldn't throw any more money at it. I won't lie and say it is not still hard at times, but I know it has to be over so I have accepted it the best I can. I hate that he is an only child, but I swore I would never let my heart ache like that Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-55314039652181539302009-02-05T21:33:00.000-05:002009-02-05T21:33:00.000-05:00(((Rebel))) I'm sorry he caught you by surprise li...(((Rebel))) I'm sorry he caught you by surprise like that :*( I think what provided closure for me was knowing we had no infertility coverage and we just couldn't throw any more money at it. I won't lie and say it is not still hard at times, but I know it has to be over so I have accepted it the best I can. I hate that he is an only child, but I swore I would never let my heart ache like that Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-30053847078103279492009-02-05T21:22:00.000-05:002009-02-05T21:22:00.000-05:00(((HUGS))) I wish I had answers, a way to make it ...(((HUGS))) I wish I had answers, a way to make it easier for you. My thoughts are with you and my heart breaks for you. Maybe w/a little time he will change his mind. I so understand everything you feel and I think it just a natural thing. ((HUGS))Kahlahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09062732728748588097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-59049826612317375932009-02-05T16:35:00.000-05:002009-02-05T16:35:00.000-05:00Oh, sweetie! I wish I knew what to say. But I have...Oh, sweetie! I wish I knew what to say. But I have faith that you two will work this out.<BR/><BR/>What about just doing a frozen cycle next? So much easier on your body.Dorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16255190971670471758noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-9732367278313719422009-02-05T15:29:00.000-05:002009-02-05T15:29:00.000-05:00I think the hardest thing for anyone who loves you...I think the hardest thing for anyone who loves you is to watch you do something you want more than anything, not get it, and feel powerless to help you. I wonder if his motivation for saying that (at least in part) comes from just wishing there was something else he could do but knowing there's not.<BR/><BR/>It might be a good time to talk to someone. Since infertility is so emotionally-chargedErinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04077459860855798660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-46268460917055778962009-02-05T15:00:00.000-05:002009-02-05T15:00:00.000-05:00I am so sorry! Prayers are wit you!I am so sorry! Prayers are wit you!Traceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11064113501129840818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-46607597746201214232009-02-05T14:33:00.000-05:002009-02-05T14:33:00.000-05:00Oh Reb... I know this must be tearing you up insid...Oh Reb... I know this must be tearing you up inside. You two will get through it and come through on the other side. It just may mean you have to do some soul searching your not quite prepared to do yet.<BR/>I hope you can find some comfort soon.<BR/>{HUGS}Debzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06782022114303206069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-81165716490419285322009-02-05T14:17:00.000-05:002009-02-05T14:17:00.000-05:00This sucks, sucks, sucks!!!I wish I had words for ...This sucks, sucks, sucks!!!<BR/><BR/>I wish I had words for this but I don't. It just sucks.momofonefornowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09024643244161544858noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-20746488032949188082009-02-05T13:54:00.000-05:002009-02-05T13:54:00.000-05:00*hugs**hugs*Aunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37443842.post-51532482570089403322009-02-05T13:23:00.000-05:002009-02-05T13:23:00.000-05:00I have no word...just lots of {{{{{hugs}}}}}.I have no word...just lots of {{{{{hugs}}}}}.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10791317184998122691noreply@blogger.com